I was having a conversation with my father over the weekend about his retirement and it occurred to me that there are 4 things that you must have to live a successful and happy retirement. All of them beginning with the letter P:
The first is arguably the most important and drives the other 3, so what better place to begin than:
Those clients that go onto live happy retirements often enter retirement with a sense of purpose. They don’t feel that this is ‘it’, there is usually ‘something more’, ‘something next’ that is driving them forward.
There is no right or wrong answer here. Your purpose is just that – yours. It could be that you wish to write a book to change how people view the roman empire, perhaps you wish to play in a band and perform in front of 50,000 people. Maybe you want to visit each country on the planet, or it could be that you wish to provide the best support to your children and grandchildren.
It doesn’t matter what your purpose is, more that you have one.
Mitch Anthony, a US retirement expert says, “To have a wonderful retirement you only need two things: enough purpose to get up in the morning and enough money to sleep at night”.
I think this is quite true. Although it can be tricky, it is important that you figure out your purpose before you go into retirement to give yourself a sense of direction and meaning. Once this is clear, the other 3 p’s then fall into place.
The next thing most people will think about is people. Who do you want to spend more time with now that you have more of it?
It could be children and grandchildren. Perhaps you wish to spend more time with friends and family. It can also help to think about what you wish to do with those people. Is it simply spending more time with them that counts or is there something specific you need to work on or achieve together?
We have clients who have had slightly rocky relationships with their loved ones that have been repaired as they have gone into retirement. Perhaps it is simply the addition of more time that makes the difference.
Where you do wish to go and see? What do you wish to do while you are there? For some people there will be grand plans to see the world (perhaps the whole of it), for others, their travel plans will be more modest.
However, it is important to decide in which places you wish to spend your retirement as this will very much drive the cost of your desired lifestyle.
Finally, it is useful to think about projects. Some projects could be short term and arise because you simply haven’t had the time to tackle them before. Clean the garage out, tidy that draw full of papers – that type of thing.
Other projects are far wider reaching and could transcend years or even decades. Learn to play the guitar, influence government policy, save the rain forest. All examples of projects that clients have wanted to undertake which could very well be works in progress forever!
From my own experience (and there is now a lot of research and science backing this up as well), the people who enjoy their retirement the most, are the ones that have really thought about the 4 P’s before they retire. In doing so, some people realise that they don’t really want to retire at all. Others will decide that their retirement might not really be ‘retirement’, more a new chapter in life.
If you would like any help on your own retirement journey, we would be delighted to assist. Please contact us now for your discovery meeting, provided at our own expense.