With the new year already in full swing, the statistics tell us that around 25% of those people who made a new years resolution will have already broken it. By the end of January this figure increases to nearly 35%, and by the end of the year a whopping 90% of people admit to letting their new years resolutions go out of the window.
What I have found works for me in maintaining these commitments that we make to ourselves is trying to make a commitment to the commitment (that’s a lot of commitments!). What I mean by this is doing something that means that you can’t turn back. This could mean actually writing the cheque for that course you have been meaning to take, sign up to run the London marathon rather than just saying that you will, set up the standing order to make your regular savings, rather than promising yourself that you will at the end of the month.
These are all small actions that can prevent us from getting off track when we commit to making changes in our lives. I know that this philosophy works for me. In fact, in the past 2 days I have bitten one of the biggest bullets of my life and committed to taking a masters degree in Financial Planning & Business Management this year at Manchester Metropolitan University. This is something that I have been wanting to do for the past year or so, but I must admit I have been procrastinating slightly. Having now sent back the acceptance form, I am well and truly IN. I have made a commitment to others and not just to myself, and all of a sudden, my motivation to complete the task at hand (no matter how daunting) is far higher than before I completed that little one page form.
I will end this post with a quote on commitment by William Hutchinson Murray. Happy new year!
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”